MORTALITY
I’ll
get back to books next week. This week, it’s more personal.
One
of my friends in Portland died on Friday. Brian’d been sick for some time and
even hospitalized for a stretch. I heard this mostly via Facebook and other
people closer to him than I was. From what I’ve gathered is that he died of
natural causes due to complications of the illness. He wasn’t much older than
myself which hit closer to home that I’d normally be willing to admit. After I
left Portland, I didn’t have much contact with my former group due to distance
and that most of the members were/are private people.
I
first met Brian via a website and a local meet-up of Portland peoples. We
gathered for pizza and to talk about gaming. After it’d ended, a few of us
moved to another place to have coffee and play games. This is where I was
introduced to Apples to Apples and a little game called Chez Geek. I had a hoot
of a time and started me down the path which crossed his a few years later.
Again,
the gaming website came in play, as one of the member moved to Portland and
ended up staying with Brian and his boyfriend at the time. We talked and she
invited me over for their Friday evening gaming session. I played a couple of
games and the one that stuck in my mind was Power Grid and Ticket to Ride. Nowadays
they’re a bit old hat, but in those days, they were new as hell to me. I got to
hang with some really cool people.
Brian,
as it turned out, had a number of hobbies besides gaming. His interest and
knowledge in prog rock rivaled many people and while he wasn’t the most
outspoken of people, he had a passion of for it. He worked hard to include
everyone and make the times were got together interesting. When I headed over
to his place, there was usually something new on the gaming shelf and Brian was
ready to explain the rules. He wanted to make sure that everyone had an even
footing when we played. More times than not, he won, but not because he knew something
we didn’t. He was just that good of a player and more often than not, a very
unassuming one.
Brian
suggested that I go to PAX with him and a couple of other guys. There I learned
that Will Wheaton was a fantastic speaker and the joys of soaking in the eye
candy of gaming. He knew all the cool little places to go for breakfast and
introduced me to really good sushi for the first time. There were a lot of
firsts thanks to Brian. I learned to grow in my outlook of people and found new
enjoyment in the gaming hobby.
Thank
you Brian for the little things. They’re the ones that mean the most even if I
didn’t understand them at the time.
You’ll be missed by everyone you touched.